From adversity to resilience, this is the path that shaped The Unshakable Mind™.
I wasn’t supposed to be here.
Growing up in Glendale, Arizona, I was the middle child of three girls, raised by a single mom battling debilitating depression. At eleven, she confided in me that she no longer wanted to live. Three years earlier, I had already lost my father to alcoholism.
"Mindset is the difference between sinking and surviving."
After college, I repeated the pattern and spiraled into addiction. The turning point came in 1997 when I chose sobriety. That decision became the foundation for The Unshakable Mind™ Method.
"The moment I chose sobriety, I began building the system that would one day change not just my life, but the lives of countless others."
From there, I built a career in leadership and human development—earning advanced degrees, leading a large real estate firm as CEO, and coaching hundreds of professionals. On paper, I was winning. Inside, I saw the same struggle in others that I had once faced: fear, doubt, and overwhelm hiding beneath success.
"Even the most accomplished leaders wrestle with fear, doubt, and overwhelm."
That realization fueled my mission. Today, as an internationally certified PCC coach, I partner with leaders, entrepreneurs, and professionals to:
▪️Reframe fear into fuel.
▪️Refocus on clarity and courage.
▪️Reignite passion, momentum, and purpose.
I know what it feels like to be stuck—and I know the freedom of becoming unshakable.
"This isn’t just my profession. It’s my life’s mission."
From adversity to resilience, this is the path that shaped The Unshakable Mind™.
I wasn’t supposed to be here.
Growing up in Glendale, Arizona, I was the middle child of three girls, raised by a single mom battling debilitating depression. At eleven, she confided in me that she no longer wanted to live. Three years earlier, I had already lost my father to alcoholism.
"Mindset is the difference between sinking and surviving."
After college, I repeated the pattern and spiraled into addiction. The turning point came in 1997 when I chose sobriety. That decision became the foundation for The Unshakable Mind™ Method.
"The moment I chose sobriety, I began building the system that would one day change not just my life, but the lives of countless others."
From there, I built a career in leadership and human development—earning advanced degrees, leading a large real estate firm as CEO, and coaching hundreds of professionals. On paper, I was winning. Inside, I saw the same struggle in others that I had once faced: fear, doubt, and overwhelm hiding beneath success.
"Even the most accomplished leaders wrestle with fear, doubt, and overwhelm."
That realization fueled my mission. Today, as an internationally certified PCC coach, I partner with leaders, entrepreneurs, and professionals to:
▪️Reframe fear into fuel.
▪️Refocus on clarity and courage.
▪️Reignite passion, momentum, and purpose.
I know what it feels like to be stuck—and I know the freedom of becoming unshakable.
"This isn’t just my profession. It’s my life’s mission."
Internationally Certified PCC & CPIC, 30+ years in leadership and coaching.
Guides leaders, entrepreneurs, and professionals to resilience, clarity, and unstoppable momentum.
Client concierge and accountability partner, ensuring every coaching experience is supported and seamless.
Keeps clients on track with scheduling, follow-up, and resources.
Oversees financial operations and strategic planning.
Ensures The Unshakable Mind is built to grow and sustain long-term impact.
Internationally Certified PCC & CPIC, 30+ years in leadership and coaching.
Guides leaders, entrepreneurs, and professionals to resilience, clarity, and unstoppable momentum.
Client concierge and accountability partner, ensuring every coaching experience is supported and seamless.
Keeps clients on track with scheduling, follow-up, and resources.
Oversees financial operations and strategic planning.
Ensures The Unshakable Mind is built to grow and sustain long-term impact.
Lasting transformation isn’t random—it comes from following a clear, proven system.
A 3-pillar framework—Reframe, Refocus, Reignite—that turns stress into clarity, doubt into confidence, and hesitation into bold action.
Lasting transformation isn’t random—it comes from following a clear, proven system.
A 3-pillar framework—Reframe, Refocus, Reignite—that turns stress into clarity, doubt into confidence, and hesitation into bold action.
Change the story in your head so challenges become opportunities and setbacks spark growth.
Cut through the noise, trust your decisions, and move forward with confidence.
Rediscover your drive, build fresh energy, and keep progress alive.
Change the story in your head so challenges become opportunities and setbacks spark growth.
Cut through the noise, trust your decisions, and move forward with confidence.
Rediscover your drive, build fresh energy, and keep progress alive.
"Kole helped me transform how I see myself and how I show up for clients, colleagues, family, and friends. I’ve struggled my whole life with self-confidence, but now I proudly call myself the Queen of reframing! Kole’s depth, compassion, and wisdom have changed my personal and professional life in extraordinary ways."
- Julie Q., Business Owner and Entrepreneur
"Kole is a great trainer and human being! The amount of detail and value you receive is immense. Her coaching has made a tremendous impact on my life, both personally and professionally."
- Shane B., Corporate Tech Trainer
"Before working with Kole, I felt completely directionless in my career. In just four sessions, her optimism and guidance gave me the tools to land a job, advocate for myself, and align my work with my personality and purpose. Today, I feel more confident than ever in building a meaningful, purpose-driven life."
- Missy T., Director of Operations
"Kole helped me transform how I see myself and how I show up for clients, colleagues, family, and friends. I’ve struggled my whole life with self-confidence, but now I proudly call myself the Queen of reframing! Kole’s depth, compassion, and wisdom have changed my personal and professional life in extraordinary ways."
- Julie Q., Business Owner and Entrepreneur
"Kole is a great trainer and human being! The amount of detail and value you receive is immense. Her coaching has made a tremendous impact on my life, both personally and professionally."
- Shane B., Corporate Tech Trainer
"Before working with Kole, I felt completely directionless in my career. In just four sessions, her optimism and guidance gave me the tools to land a job, advocate for myself, and align my work with my personality and purpose. Today, I feel more confident than ever in building a meaningful, purpose-driven life."
- Missy T., Director of Operations
20 minutes. No pressure. Real next steps.
20 minutes. No pressure. Real next steps.
Reframe limits. Refocus energy. Reignite potential. The Unshakable Mind is where bold moves begin.
Copyright © 2025 Finley-RE: Coaching and Consulting LLC. All rights reserved.
The Unshakable Mind is a trademark of Finley-RE: Coaching and Consulting, LLC
Reframe limits. Refocus energy. Reignite potential. The Unshakable Mind is where bold moves begin.
Copyright © 2025 Finley-RE: Coaching and Consulting LLC. All rights reserved.
The Unshakable Mind is a trademark of Finley-RE: Coaching and Consulting, LLC
©️ 2025 Finley-RE: Coaching and Consulting, LLC | All Rights Reserved
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The Unshakable Mind is a trademark of Finley-RE: Coaching and Consulting